So, it has been almost a month since I first blogged about my 20 Before Twenty plan. How much have I gotten done in the last month? Let’s see…

(and these are in no particular order either)

1. get engagement photos taken –well I’ve been working on this in just the last week or so. I really hoped to get our engagement photos taken sometime in March or April, while the Spring weather is nice and before it gets too hot. I’ve looked into and contacted photographers, but I’m not sure if it will happen that soon. ๐Ÿ™
2. officially set the date for the wedding –we’ve got our date in mind, but are waiting to make it official until we’ve make sure that venues and all the other stuff will work with it. ๐Ÿ™‚
3. try cooking new things with new ingredients (I think we might pick at least 1 new recipe a week) –so far we have done really well with this one! We’ve made at least one new recipe a week, often more than that and we’veย  incorporated several new ingredients as well! ๐Ÿ™‚
4. write a substantial poem –I don’t know that I’ve written a substantial poem yet, but I have written a couple smaller ones. ๐Ÿ™‚
5. launch Drew & I’s combined design business (We’ve been working on it and I’m excited about it!) –YAY! This one is DONE! ๐Ÿ™‚ Read about it here.
6. finish the stuff I need to do for my mom’s bow business –this isn’t completely done, but we have made major progress on it in the last couple weeks. Her store is almost up and running! I’ve got a couple other design things to do and this will be done! ๐Ÿ™‚ (I’ll blog about it all once it is finished!)
7. officially decide on a location for the wedding & reception –We’ve tossed around a lot of ideas on this one. I think that maybe we have it figured out at least for the wedding part. We are still unsure about the reception, but have some pretty clear ideas of where we would like to have it. We need to work on this one in the next month or so.
8. go bridal shopping and try on my first wedding dress! –This one hasn’t been started at all. I know what I want my dress to look like, and I’ve looked online, but I haven’t tried anything on yet. ๐Ÿ™
9. sew something on my new sewing machine I got for Christmas (I have several projects I want to do) –I have several more projects that I want to do now, but I haven’t had time yet to even think about them. I’m hoping that I will have some time over Mardi Gras/Spring Break next week. ๐Ÿ™‚
10. Have a Corks N Canvas date night with Drew (more about that here) –Well we haven’t done this one yet because we couldn’t decide on which painting we both wanted to do. We did decide on one that we liked, but we couldn’t go on that day. Plus, I’m taking a painting class right now anyway, so I’ve already been spending a lot of time painting recently. I think this would be really fun to do in a group, but we don’t have anyone else to go with. ๐Ÿ™
11. write another creative non-fiction short story –I’ve got several stories in mind, but again I haven’t gotten around to doing this one yet. However, I did help Drew write one for one of his classes last week. I wonder if that counts? I guess maybe this whole blog counts. ๐Ÿ™‚
12. get a job for this summer –this I haven’t done yet. I have several places in mind, but I need to make a better list and start contacting people. I don’t know if they would be thinking yet about summer help though.
13. start a bible study that Drew & I do together –Well I bought Drew a new Bible and I bought a bible study book for us to do together, but it seems like every free minute we have we need to be doing homework, so we haven’t started it yet. ๐Ÿ™ We definitely need to work on that one.
14. Make a budget/spending plan for Drew & I –We’ve sort-of done this one and sort-of not. We haven’t written out a budget yet, but we’ve gotten better about budgeting where our money should go. Saving for the wedding, not eating out as much, buying groceries and using them wisely, etc…
15. Continue my healthier-self diet & start going on more walks –this we have been working on. We have been cooking a lot and making healthier things, but lately I’ve made too many cookies and carbs. But it has significantly improved since before. We have just recently started our walks, now that it has gotten warmer and nicer out. That has been really nice! Just in the last week or so, we have walked to the grocery store twice, had a picnic and walked through the park, walked to another park yesterday for an art festival and we plan to continue doing this. It is so nice outside and walking, breathing in the fresh air, and seeing all the spring plants blooming just brightens your mood significantly! ๐Ÿ™‚
16. work on decorating Drew’s apartment so it feels more “homey” –We’ve been working on this one too! We’ve gotten bedside lamps (I blogged about those here), different sheets, and just yesterday we got a new rug for the bathroom and a new rug for the dining room! ๐Ÿ™‚ It is slowly getting better! ๐Ÿ™‚
17. finish my 50 hours of community service for my scholarship that I need this semester –this one I definitely need to work on. I think I’ve completed maybe 15 hours or so, so I still have quite a few left. I needed to do another community service day yesterday, but after the craziness of my week, I really needed yesterday to relax a little. I need to set aside 5 or 6 more Saturdays of work to get this done. ๐Ÿ™
18. make my creative portfolio of all my art and design work –I can’t decide what to do with this one. My art has improved significantly over each art class that I’ve taken at Tulane, making my previous artwork look wimpy. I think I might hold off on the art part, just because I don’t feel like I’ve done anything worthy enough for portfolio status. Although I should still probably put them in anyway, just to see how much I’ve improved. The design part will hopefully be getting done soon, because it needs to be added to our website. ๐Ÿ™‚
19. get my first apartment –I’ve been looking at apartments, but this will need to be done a little closer to May.
20. work on the design for my wedding invitations and other various wedding planning –This needs to be worked on a lot more. I’ve got a lot of ideas and planned out what I want for most things, but I really need to start making more concrete decisions and getting stuff together. ๐Ÿ™‚

I’m pretty happy because it looks like for at least most of them I’ve done something. Some I’ve completed, some I’ve gotten mostly done, and some I’ve just thought about. Those greatly outnumber the ones I haven’t done anything about, so I think that I’m pretty much on track so far. I’ve still got two and a half months to finish them! ๐Ÿ™‚

Today is National Tell a Fairy Tale day! How awesome! I love fairy tales! I took a Children’s Literature class last semester and we studied fairy tales for half the course. They are pretty interesting! One of my dreams in life is to write and illustrate a children’s book, most likely that will have fairy tale aspects.

What is your favorite fairy tale? It is hard for me to pick just one, I think that they are all interesting. Here is one that you might not have heard before:

Donkey Skin by Charles Perrault (a French fairy tale written around 1694)

Once upon a time there was a king who was the most powerful ruler in the whole world. Kind and just in peace and terrifying in war, his enemies feared him while his subjects were happy and content. His wife and faithful companion was both charming and beautiful. From their union a daughter had been born.

Their large and magnificent palace was filled with courtiers, and their stables boasted steeds large and small, of every description. But what surprised everyone on entering these stables was that the place of honor was held by a donkey with two big ears. However, it was quite worthy of this position, for every morning, instead of dung, it dropped a great load of gold coins upon the litter.

Now heaven, which seems to mingle good with evil, suddenly permitted a bitter illness to attack the queen. Help was sought on all sides, but neither the learned physicians nor the charlatans were able to arrest the fever which increased daily. Finally, her last hour having come, the queen said to her husband: “Promise me that if, when I am gone, you find a woman wiser and more beautiful than I, you will marry her and so provide an heir for throne.”

Confident that it would be impossible to find such a woman, the queen thus believed that her husband would never remarry. The king accepted his wife’s conditions, and shortly thereafter she died in his arms.

For a time the king was inconsolable in his grief, both day and night. Some months later, however, on the urging of his courtiers, he agreed to marry again, but this was not an easy matter, for he had to keep his promise to his wife and search as he might, he could not find a new wife with all the attractions he sought. Only his daughter had a charm and beauty which even the queen had not possessed.

Thus only by marrying his daughter could he satisfy the promise he had made to his dying wife, and so he forthwith proposed marriage to her. This frightened and saddened the princess, and she tried to show her father the mistake he was making. Deeply troubled at this turn of events, she sought out her fairy godmother who lived in a grotto of coral and pearls.

“I know why you have come here,” her godmother said. “In your heart there is a great sadness. But I am here to help you and nothing can harm you if you follow my advice. You must not disobey your father, but first tell him that you must have a dress which has the color of the sky. Certainly he will never be able to meet that request.”

And so the young princess went all trembling to her father. But he, the moment he heard her request, summoned his best tailors and ordered them, without delay, to make a dress the color of the sky, or they could be assured he would hang them all.

The following day the dress was shown to the princess. It was the most beautiful blue of heaven. Filled now with both happiness and fear, she did not know what to do, but her godmother again told her, “Ask for a dress the color of the moon. Surely your father will not be able to give you this.”

No sooner had the princess made the request than the king summoned his embroiderers and ordered that a dress the color of the moon be completed by the fourth day. On that very day it was ready and the princess was again delighted with its beauty.

But still her godmother urged her once again to make a request of the king, this time for a dress as bright and shining as the sun. This time the king summoned a wealthy jeweler and ordered him to make a cloth of gold and diamonds, warning him that if he failed he would die. Within a week the jeweler had finished the dress, so beautiful and radiant that it dazzled the eyes of everyone who saw it.

The princess did not know how to thank the king, but once again her godmother whispered in her ear. “Ask him for the skin of the donkey in the royal stable. The king will not consider your request seriously. You will not receive it, or I am badly mistaken.” But she did not understand how extraordinary was the king’s desire to please his daughter. Almost immediately the donkey’s skin was brought to the princess.

Once again she was frightened and once again her godmother came to her assistance. “Pretend,” she said, “to give in to the king. Promise him anything he wishes, but, at the same time, prepare to escape to some far country.

“Here,” she continued, “is a chest in which we will put your clothes, your mirror, the things for your toilet, your diamonds and other jewels. I will give you my magic wand. Whenever you have it in your hand, the chest will follow you everywhere, always hidden underground. Whenever you wish to open the chest, as soon as you touch the wand to the ground, the chest will appear.

“To conceal you, the donkey’s skin will be an admirable disguise, for when you are inside it, no one will believe that anyone so beautiful could be hidden in anything so frightful.”

Early in the morning the princess disappeared as she was advised. They searched everywhere for her, in houses, along the roads, wherever she might have been, but in vain. No one could imagine what had become of her.

The princess, meanwhile, was continuing her flight. To everyone she met, she extended her hands, begging them to find her some place where she might find work. But she looked so unattractive and indeed so repulsive in her Donkey Skin disguise that no one would have anything to do with such a creature.

Farther and still farther she journeyed until finally she came to a farm where they needed a poor wretch to wash the dishcloths and clean out the pig troughs. They also made her work in a corner of the kitchen where she was exposed to the low jokes and ridicule of all the other servants.

On Sundays she had a little rest for, having completed her morning tasks, she went to her room and closed the door and bathed. Then she opened the chest, took out her toilet jars and set them up, with the mirror, before her. Having made herself beautiful once more, she tried on her moon dress, then that one which shone like the sun and, finally, the lovely blue dress. Her only regret was that she did not have room enough to display their trains. She was happy, however, in seeing herself young again, and this pleasure carried her along from one Sunday to the next.

On this great farm where she worked there was an aviary belonging to a powerful king. All sorts of unusual birds with strange habits were kept there. The king’s son often stopped at this farm on his return from the hunt in order to rest and enjoy a cool drink with his courtiers.

From a distance Donkey Skin gazed on him with tenderness and remembered that beneath her dirt and rags she still had the heart of a princess. What a grand manner he has, she thought. How gracious he is! How happy must she be to whom his heart is pledged! If he should give me a dress of only the simplest sort, I would feel more splendid wearing it than any of these which I have.

One day the young prince, seeking adventure from court yard to court yard, came to the obscure hallway where Donkey Skin had her humble room. By chance he put his eye to the key hole. It was a feast-day and Donkey Skin had put on her dress of gold and diamonds which shone as brightly as the sun. The prince was breathless at her beauty, her youthfulness, and her modesty. Three times he was on the point of entering her room, but each time refrained.

On his return to his father’s palace, the prince became very thoughtful, sighing day and night and refusing to attend any of the balls and carnivals. He lost his appetite and finally sank into sad and deadly melancholy. He asked who this beautiful maiden was that lived in such squalor and was told that it was Donkey Skin, the ugliest animal one could find, except the wolf, and a certain cure for love. This he would not believe, and he refused to forget what he had seen.

His mother, the queen, begged him to tell her what was wrong. Instead, he moaned, wept and sighed. He would say nothing, except that he wanted Donkey Skin to make him a cake with her own hands.

“O heavens,” they told her, “this Donkey Skin is only a poor, drab servant.”

“It makes no difference,” replied the queen. “We must do as he says. It is the only way to save him.”

So Donkey Skin took some flour which she had ground especially fine, and some salt, some butter and some fresh eggs and shut herself alone in her room to make the cake. But first she washed her face and hands and put on a silver smock in honor of the task she had undertaken.

Now the story goes that, working perhaps a little too hastily, there fell from Donkey Skin’s finger into the batter a ring of great value. Some who know the outcome of this story think that she may have dropped the ring on purpose, and they are probably right, for when the prince stopped at her door and looked through the key hole, she must have known it. And she was sure that the ring would be received most joyfully by her lover.

The prince found the cake so good that in his ravishing hunger, he almost swallowed the ring! When he saw the beautiful emerald and the band of gold that traced the shape of Donkey Skin’s finger, his heart was filled with an indescribable joy. At once he put the ring under his pillow, but his illness increased daily until finally the doctors, seeing him grow worse, gravely concluded that he was sick with love.

Marriage, whatever may be said against it, is an excellent remedy for love sickness. And so it was decided that the prince was to marry.

“But I insist,” he said, “that I will wed only the person whom this ring fits.” This unusual demand surprised the king and queen very much, but the prince was so ill that they did not dare object.

A search began for whoever might be able to fit the ring on her finger, no matter what the station in life. It was rumored throughout the land that in order to win the prince one must have a very slender finger. Every charlatan had his secret method of making the finger slim. One suggested scraping it as though it was a turnip. Another recommended cutting away a small piece. Still another, with a certain liquid, planned to decrease the size by removing the skin.

At last the trials began with the princesses, the marquesses and the duchesses, but their fingers, although delicate, were too big. for the ring. Then the countesses, the baronesses and all the nobility presented their hands, but all in vain. Next came the working girls, who often have slender and beautiful fingers, but the ring would not fit them, either.

Finally it was necessary to turn to the servants, the kitchen help, the slaveys and the poultry keepers, with their red and dirty hands. Putting the tiny ring on their clumsy fingers was like trying to thread a big rope through the eye of a needle.

At last the trials were finished. There remained only Donkey Skin in her far corner of the farm kitchen. Who could dream that she ever would be queen?

“And why not?” asked the prince. “Ask her to come here.” At that, some started to laugh; others cried out against bringing that frightful creature into the room. But when she drew out from under the donkey skin a little hand as white as ivory and the ring vas placed on her finger and fitted perfectly, everyone was astounded.

They prepared to take her to the king at once, but she asked that before she appeared before her lord and master, she be permitted to change her clothes. To tell the truth, there was some smiling at this request, but when she arrived at the palace in her beautiful dress, the richness of which had never been equaled, with her blonde hair all alight with diamonds and her blue eyes sweet and appealing and even her waist so slender that two hands could have encircled it, then even the gracious ladies of the court seemed, by comparison, to have lost all their charms. In all this happiness and excitement, the king did not fail to notice the charms of his prospective daughter-in-law, and the queen was completely delighted with her. The prince himself found his happiness almost more than he could bear. Preparations for the wedding were begun at once, and the kings of all the surrounding countries were invited. Some came from the East, mounted on huge elephants. Others were so fierce looking that they frightened the little children. From all the corners of the world they came and descended on the court in great numbers.

But neither the prince nor the many visiting kings appeared in such splendor as the bride’s father, who now recognized his daughter and begged her forgiveness.

“How kind heaven is,” he said, “to let me see you again, my dear daughter.” Weeping with joy, he embraced her tenderly. His happiness was shared by all, and the future husband was delighted to find that his father-in-law was such a powerful king. At that moment the fairy godmother arrived, too, and told the whole story of what had happened, and what she had to tell added the final triumph for Donkey Skin.

It is not hard to see that the moral of this tale is that it is better to undergo the greatest hardships rather than to fail in one’s duty, that virtue may sometimes seem ill-fated but will always triumph in the end.

The story of Donkey Skin may be hard to believe, but so long as there are children, mothers, and grandmothers in this world, it will be remembered by all.

Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.
~C.S. Lewis

Sorry for the depressing-ness of my last post. I’ve been really stressed about all that for a while and I just needed to get it off my chest a little. Sorry for being so negative. I usually try to stay positive on here and in general, but I guess sometimes its good to speak your feelings. It reminds everyone else that no one is perfect, we all have struggles. So anyway, mine are no where near resolved, but I’m tired of thinking about them right now. It’s the weekend! I do want to thank everyone for all the advice they gave me, it is nice to know who is there when you need them. Anyway, I’m going to relax and enjoy the nice weather. Here are some pictures I took while walking to class yesterday: (sorry for the low quality–my phone takes crappy pictures and I didn’t have my camera with me)

My dad called me last night and read me this poem. He said he had heard it a long time ago and written it down. It was funny listening to him read it because he read it in his wedding voice–he usually always reads at least one poem at the weddings he does. It was just what I needed, a little cheer and a smile and support. The poem is good general life advice for anyone:

Desiderata (Latin for “things to be desired”)
written by Max Ehrmann in the 1920s

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

When you come to the fork in the road, what do you do? Well, I feel like I might be at that fork in the road, and honestly, I have no clue what to do. It seems like I’ve had my whole life planned out since I was a little kid, and so far it has gone mostly according to plan. I’m not really sure that I know what to do if I step outside that plan.

I always saw myself graduating from high school, getting a scholarship, and going to a good college, getting my degree and then going on and getting a job in whatever field I chose to get my degree in. Well, I’ve done half of those. I graduated, got my scholarship, and I’m going to a good school.

I didn’t know what exactly I wanted to do when I started college. I thought about becoming a teacher, mainly because it is what my grandparents both did, and what I had always wanted to do since I was little. I also thought about event planning and various other things but I really wasn’t sure. I had always really wanted to do something art related, because I’ve always loved art and creativity, but I didn’t know what art related jobs were out there. It wasn’t until my first semester of college that one of my classes went on a little field trip to this tiny little bookbinding shop, where this graphic designer was showing some of her work that she had done in the layout of this new book that they were doing about New Orleans. I fell in love from the start. I remember looking at the book that she was working on and thinking that her art looked so cool and it had a practical purpose and that was what I wanted to do too.

Here’s the catch. Tulane doesn’t have a program for graphic design. I have a scholarship to go to Tulane. I moved to New Orleans to go to Tulane. Drew moved to New Orleans and transferred to UNO so I could go to Tulane.

I thought about it for the next semester, wondering how I could make it work. I looked into the programs that Tulane offered, hoping that surely in the degree listings that I had missed it somewhere. I met with my academic advisor. She couldn’t have been less helpful. She told me that I was at an esteemed research university. Not a trade school. If I wanted to study graphic design then I should have gone to a trade school. Not to Tulane.

I left confused. I’m still confused and its a year later. I decided to stick it out. Study English since that’s what I’d already started in. I added an Art Studio minor, thinking that if I wanted to go to art school for graphic design later that it would help. I got an internship last summer with a graphic design company to get some real experience and see what I would really do as a designer. I loved it.

But it is so hard for me to stay focused on school when I don’t really understand why I’m here. I want to get a degree and here someone is paying for me to get one, so that’s why I’m here. But I can’t study what I want to. But what is the point of school if I’m not studying what I want to do. I’m in the teacher certification program and my major is English, but I don’t want to teach. I want to have my own graphic design business (which Drew and I already have started) and I want to eventually have my own little boutique where I sell handmade things.

That doesn’t relate to English or Teacher Certification at all. I’m not saying that I haven’t learned anything by being here. I’ve learned a lot. I appreciate everything that Tulane has given me. But I don’t know what to do now. I feel stuck. I hate school. I’ve always loved school my whole life. But I hate school now. I have so much to do and I’m so stressed all the time, sometimes I’m up all night long finishing my work, and why? To get a degree that I’m not even going to use because its not in what I want to do?

I feel stretched too thin. My classes take up all my energy and wear me out. But at the same time, I can’t focus on them. I’m not motivated. I don’t have enough time to get all my work done. I work my butt off and sometimes I still can’t make the grades I want to make. It was really bad last semester of last year. This year it has gotten a little better because of the art classes, which I enjoy. But I’m getting worn out of school altogether and I still have two years left.

I can’t stand college. I don’t like the structure of it. I don’t like the stereotypes. I don’t understand the reasoning behind the stress and the pressure and the insanity. I can’t stand teachers that give inhuman amounts of work and expect you to get it all done, thinking that their class is the only one that you have. What about the other five that are also demanding your attention? I find myself getting distracted with wanting to work on designing things, working on ideas for our business, I want to be creative. I sit in class trying to figure out what I’m going to cook for dinner. I’m searching for structure, for stability.

I hate living in a dorm room, not having a real home. I just don’t fit in. I don’t drink. I don’t party. I don’t think that my career is the absolute number one most important thing in my life. I don’t have any friends here. People look at me like I’m crazy for coming from a small town, for having values, for thinking that family is important, for being in a serious relationship, for wanting to get married, for being domestic, for wanting to be a designer.

I was at this same place a year ago. I wanted to study design, but resigned myself to staying here and sticking with what I started. But is that really the best thing to do? I don’t want to be stupid and give up my full-ride scholarship. But it only applies to certain schools. Research universities. Not art schools and trade schools. I have a whole life in New Orleans now. Drew has a whole life in New Orleans now. He has school and two jobs. I like our life here. I just don’t like what I’m studying and I feel like I’m wasting my time. I’m sick of school, but I want a degree. I thought about studying graphic design after graduating from Tulane, but I don’t know that I’ll have the energy for any more school after I make it through here. Plus if I’m going to pay to do it later, why not just pay to do it now?

Trust me, I’ve thought this through for the past year about every way I possibly could. But I still don’t know what to do. I’m not a big risk-taker. I’m not the one to leave the path. I probably will stick it out and finish my degree here because its what I should do. I don’t know what else to do. Where do I go from here?

Today we started painting with COLOR! It is amazing how a little color on your palette can literally brighten your day just a little. ๐Ÿ™‚

Notes from my walk yesterday:

Broken sidewalk, brown leaves, wind chimes.
Almost a car wreck, I saw, and
a parade float (a castle)–
all in the first two blocks.

The nice, warm, breezy weather, the leaves, the wind chimes– for some reason remind me of my Mamaw and being in her backyard. We used to sit in the swing in the backyard daily, chatting, drawing, watching the cars go by and making up our own games. Often I wish I could be back there, back there with her.

Since we had two leftover Ciabatta rolls from dinner last night, I decided to make Paninis for lunch.

Chicken, Tomato, Italian cheeses, garlic and some Italian herbs…mmmmmm they were super tasty! I wish I’d had some veggies to add in, but oh well. Next time ๐Ÿ˜‰

My favorite thing to do when I was little was play dress-up. I had a huge box of things that I had collected from all over our house (my older sister’s closet throw-outs). I had beads and feathers and old nightgowns and sheer fabric from my mom’s sewing stash and a couple 80’s style sparkly dresses. I also had this Greek style dress made out of an old sheet that I had to have for a class project one year that my mom made. It was a random collection of things. My childhood best friend, Molly, and I would play in that stuff, and her respective collection at her house all the time.

We had quite the imaginations. Molly was always reading, so she would always get these crazy ideas from books that we should dress up and act out. “Let’s pretend that we are from Moscow and we have to leave for America on a ship and leave our long lost loves there. We can send them telegrams.” There was always tension in her stories. Almost always were we writing letters or sending telegrams. She had a bunch of old books at her house, one that had the Greek alphabet in it, so she was always pretending that she was studying to work hard to make money to send back to her family in England or wherever. Her stories almost always had some sort of Titanic (although successful–not tragic) voyage across some ocean or another to end up in America–more often than not leaving somebody behind.

Her backyard butted up to a cornfield, so I remember several times acting like we were Indians, having to pick corn and crush it to make food and making tepees out of sheets. At my house, Kelsey and Jill would play too. We would pretend that we were straight out of “Little House on the Prairie” and we lived in the playhouse in my backyard. I would always get a big bucket of water and have to do all the laundry by hand and hang it to dry. (I only ever washed the tablecloth we had though) We would also get a big pot and make soup out of all the random ingredients we found in the yard. Turnips and tomatoes out of the garden, some leaves, and orange peel, birdseed, etc. (We never ate it, in case you were wondering)

I must say, we were creative children, or maybe we just had big imaginations. Either way, it was fun. Thank goodness for nieces. You can still get away with playing dress-up as an adult. ๐Ÿ™‚ Evie though, in the past hasn’t really liked dress up like we did. She is much more interested in sparkle than in distress, living outside, and sending telegrams. Give her time though–she will come around. ๐Ÿ™‚

Anyway, I’m getting off topic, this post was supposed to be about inspiration. I guess I was inspired by this, it inspired me to think of my childhood. Anyway, here are some more items from Etsy that look like they would be perfect for Evie’s style dress-up. Colorful and Sparkly. (although I’m pretty sure these aren’t meant for dress-up, but to be worn as a real outfit.)

Miss Ruby Sue‘s shop on Etsy specializes mainly in hair accessories:

I love the fabrics and colors she uses in her hair accessories, I’m sure kids love them!

For all the adults that can’t play dress up anymore, here are some cute accessories from Nest Pretty Things that would be perfect for dressing up an outfit:

I love the look of all the vintage buttons! So pretty and classy too! ๐Ÿ™‚

This morning’s breakfast:

We have lots of fruit that we need to use before it goes bad, so I made pancakes and loaded them with fruit. Nice way to get Drew to eat his blueberries. Pretty good, although I really don’t like sweets for breakfast. So I ate some eggs afterward. ๐Ÿ™‚

Sorry for switching everything up on y’all! Since Drew and I are now using P.S. Designs for all our designing, Love, Cake Designs sort-of bit the dust. I might use it again later to start up my own stationary line or something, but for now, it is nonexistent.

My old blog address was way too long (www.lovecakedesigns.com/icingonthecakeblog/) and it was part of lovecakedesigns.com, so to make everything work easier, it is now here, at www.icingonthecakeblog.com. Much easier to remember. ๐Ÿ™‚

Be sure to update the new address in your bookmarks!